I consistently feel conflicted about sharing weight loss articles with you.
I come from a strong standpoint that our body does NOT define who we are. That our happiness is absolutely NOT determined by how we look and that HEALTH, definitely doesn’t look a certain way.
In saying this, as a nutritionist, personal trainer and advocate of a healthy lifestyle, I truly believe that being at our healthiest weight is not only important for our physical health but also mental and emotional.
I’m not here to advocate weight loss, I’m here to share my knowledge and experience and perhaps give you a small piece of insight into creating life (and body) you love.
My fitness studio is currently amidst a 6-week Transformation Challenge. A challenge with the goal of, well transformation, but also of implementing real lifestyle changes to carry on into LIFE, well beyond the 6 weeks.
But it’s had me thinking… A number of clients have spoken to me about what it would take to truly transform their bodies.
Sure, there’s motivation in a regimented and supported challenge, however many of these clients have been training in the studio, some for a number of years, and still aren’t where they want to be physically.
Perhaps you’re in the same situation? You’ve been training for a while, but really, aren’t in the body you imagine you should have for the work you put in.
So you want to get leaner?
To be transparent, so do I. I mean, I’m pretty happy with how my body sits these days, but let’s be honest, there’s always room for improvement. Even inside of the self-love movement, where yes, I wholly and completely appreciate my body for where it’s at, however, I’m not sure there are many people out there who would truthfully say they don’t care about how their body looks. And if there are, I’d doubt they’re reading this article.
Also, caring about the way you look (and FEEL), doesn’t make you a bad person you know!
My body journey has been a tumultuous one. Weight up and down and all over the place, this diet, that diet, exercise addition, detoxification addiction, fasting, starvation, binging, emotional eating and even a stint with bulimia.
Perhaps you can relate to this ‘mess’?
Over the years, I’ve done my fair share of research around fat-loss and realised that you actually don’t need to know every trick in the book to get the basics right. However, the basics are a little more involved than what we just eat and how we move.
These are my top tips for fat loss, that will work for anyone, but from personal and professional experience, they are especially true for women wanting to let go of extra body fat and create their dream body (and life).
Maybe that’s you?
1. Get clear on your goal
Be specific about it. Some wishy-washy, far off, abstract suggestion, will not do. Lose weight is not specific. Be exact about what you want to achieve, and by when. Decide on how you will measure your progress and how you will reward yourself with stepping-stone markers along the way. Personally, I don’t like the scale and think it’s a misleading way to measure progress, you might instead want to choose an item of clothing. I would also recommend against using food as a reward, but rather to choose things like massage, new trainers, a book etc.
2. Know your WHY
This is perhaps the key to it all.
You will never achieve any goal in life if you don’t know why you want it.
Wanting to look hot, impress others or to simply convince yourself that you’ve ‘made it’, are not reasons for creating change. You’re why is about why this goal is truly important to you.
I recommend doing some writing/journaling on this question.
Ask yourself why it’s important, why it’s really REALLY important.
Be real with yourself.
Get to the core. If there is no core, maybe it isn’t really that important and that’s ok. Then it’s better to stop fighting for something that deep down, you don’t really care about and will therefore never actually reach. Instead, focus your energy on things you would truly die for.
You’ll likely find that you’re deeper why isn’t about weight at all.
3. Nutritional success
Perhaps as a nutritionist, I’m biased, but next after getting clear on your goal and why you need to set yourself up for nutritional success. If you need help on what to be eating, then you should seek that advice, but at a basic level, choose clean proteins, good fats, lots of vegetables and complex carbohydrates. Knowing what to eat and actually eating it can be two different things, however, if you don’t know where to start with the right kinds of foods, you need to get informed.
4. Move. More
Weight train at least twice per week, preferably 4. If you want to include cardio, short interval style training 1-3 per week are ideal.
Include yoga, relaxation or stretching once a week, this can even be done at home. Weight training and intervals are the two best ways to work with body composition.
In saying that, the best kind of exercise is the one you’re actually going to do. If you love Zumba, do that.
5. Supplements for fat loss
There are a lot of supplements (and a lot of scams) out there and the short answer is that if they truly worked, diet and exercise would be irrelevant, right? The things to know is that you have to get diet, exercise and mindset right first! There are a few supplements I do recommend, for example, omega 3 fatty acids, but be careful about what you buy. Many brands are heat treated and already rancid sitting on the shelf in the pharmacy.
Other supplements can be effective on a per case basis, as of course, everybody is different. As a blanket rule, I would stay away from anything off the shelf that is telling you it’s the “number 1 fat-loss supplement”. They don’t exist and can be extremely dangerous.
6. Digestion and detoxification
The number 1 supplement for fat-loss is actually a really boring one – it’s water. Our bodies are made up of toxins. Ideally, your diet is full of fibre from plenty of vegetables, but water is key to help move the fibre through and sweep out all the toxins! To ‘detox’ you need nutrition (food and a high-quality food-based multivitamin) but you also need water to actually help remove the toxins from the body. This might be one of the most effective ‘secret’ fat-loss weapons out there.
A lack of sleep and too much stress cause a rise in the stress hormone cortisol, which causes an increase in fat storage, particularly belly fat. This is among many, MANY other detrimental effects of high cortisol levels. You can’t be burning the candle at both ends and expect to look (or feel) your best.
The people who achieve lasting results aren’t always the people who know the most. They are the ones who are consistent. Consistency depends little on motivation or discipline, but all on knowing your ‘why’ and being clear on your goal. Go back to point 1 & 2. When you have these two things in place, you’ll find that consistency becomes automatic and effortless.
This is the most important aspect when it comes to fat-loss, especially for lasting results.
If you believe you will achieve the results, guess what? You will.
Unfortunately most people who wish to change their bodies never take the time to set a specific goal or to figure out their underlying motivation and as a result, have no true emotional connection to making the change a reality.
Pair this alongside many common beliefs such as “I’m not good enough” or “I’m not worthy” and it will simply be impossible to achieve any goal, no matter how well you follow the nutrition and exercise rules.
Here’s the thing…
You CAN be, do and have anything you want in your life.
You ARE good enough.
You deserve nothing but the best in life, simply because you were born to live an incredible life.
Not a single one of us was born destined to be unhappy, mediocre, overweight, broke, miserable.
We are born to be incredible.
To change our lives and the world around us.
YOU are born to be incredible.
Changing your body begins in your mind. It begins with a decision that is definite and committed. But you have to have the mindset and belief to keep the ball rolling.
How do you build the mindset?
Simply decide right now to start believing you are good enough. Worthy enough.
It’s that simple.
Notice I didn’t say easy.
Writing it down and saying it aloud will speed up the shift in your mind, and you don’t even have to believe what you’re saying to yourself at first, but you do have to start affirming it.
You’ll notice that the things you believe about yourself, are the things you constantly tell yourself.
“I’m not good at this”, “I can’t do that”, “I never do this thing”…
Whatever you tell yourself enough, you will believe.
So instead –
Every day saying things to yourself like “I am good enough”.
“I am worthy”
“I deserve this”
“I choose foods that nourish me, make me stronger and healthier”
“I am getting fitter every day”
I promise you, if you take one thing away from this post, make it this –
Get your head right, and the rest will follow.
If you’re at the stage where you’ve had it with what you’re doing (or not doing), and know something needs to change, be it around your movement, food or mindset, then send me a message to find out more about how I work with my clients to help them create a life and body they love.
I currently have 3 spaces that have opened up to work with me one-on-one through my Strong Mind, Strong Body program.
This isn’t for everyone, but if you’re ready for;
- More energy
- Feeling more confident and comfortable in your skin
- Putting the lid on sabotaging behaviours around food and self-talk
- Building strength and flexibility
Ultimately, you KNOW you were made for more than what you currently have –
Send me a message and let’s discuss the best option for you.
Perhaps you have the training down pat but need some help with food, or maybe you feel like food is under control but have no idea where to start with exercise…
OR – You feel like you have the food AND exercise under the thumb but can’t seem to crack your goals – I’d suggest this is the mindset area!
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